Yesterday, a gentleman called me to find out more about my listing services. His home had been on the market for quite some time, and he was looking for another agent to relist with. He began querying my about my services, and how I might fit in to his general plan. What I quickly learned is that he had his own ideas of how the process should run. He didn’t like “lock boxes”, needed to be present during all showings, and needed many hours lead time prior to showings. When I asked how many showings he had received during the time the house was listed, he responded ”not very many”. However, he quickly discounted any reasons buyers gave for not wanting the house, and felt angry that they wasted his time. When I asked about why he was adverse to lock boxes, he responded that buyers would just “have to understand that if they want to see the house, that they must follow my rules”. It is clear that this seller had set up an adversarial relationship between he and buyers. He wanted to control all aspects of the sale. His attitude was combative, and he sees buyers (and most likely agents) as the “enemy”.
Selling a house is a numbers game, the more traffic, the greater the possibility of the sale. So when sellers set up road blocks, making it difficult for agents to show property, and making buyers and agents uncomfortable during showings by hovering, and being combative and territorial, the house has little likelihood of ever selling. The bottom line…sellers need buyers…MANY BUYERS to come waltzing through the front door, unencumbered and free to roam. When you sell your house, you enter one of the most competitive markets ever. If a seller decides to make his house inaccessable, there are simply many others for buyers to choose from, and there goes your sale. Buyers are a sellers best friend, not the enemy. Once a buyer can really connect with the house, you’ve got a sale, and that’s a win/win!